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Special Military Issues

Family Law – Special Military Issues

Family Law

Here at Tot Law in San Diego, we appreciate and thank all individuals serving in our armed forces. To show our appreciation, we always offer a 10% military discount on legal fees to all active servicemembers. It’s our way of saying thanks for what you do to keep us all safe.

There are many legal issues affecting military members. Child support, child custody and visitation, spousal support, and division of military retirement benefits are all matters which are litigated on behalf of service members stationed here or abroad. Tot Law’s San Diego military attorneys have a great deal of experience addressing these issues, and we have a successful track record in achieving the goals of our military clients.

Child Support / Spousal Support

Special issues involving military members and child support and spousal support are important to understand before or during any legal proceedings. Although our members of the armed services are tragically underpaid for the important work they perform, BAH pay and BAS pay both can make an enormous difference in the child support and spousal support obligations for a service member. Our San Diego military attorneys are there to explain these issues every step of the way, and to zealously advocate for our clients’ wishes so that our military members are given the protections and representation each so richly deserves.

Divorce and Military Retirement Pay

Tot Law, APC’s San Diego military attorneys can also help members of our armed forces to understand the effects of divorce on military retirement pay so that these benefits can be protected to the fullest extent of the law. Don’t get taken advantage of… Call Tot Law, APC’s military attorneys today!

Orders to Relocate (“Move Away” Cases and Visitation Modifications)

Another common legal issue for San Diego’s military members arises when the member is given orders to relocate. In situations such as these, new court orders will often be necessary if the member is a parent to a minor child but no longer in a relationship with that child’s other parent. Here, a parent could be requesting the Court’s permission to relocate with the child (commonly known as a “move away” order) or a new visitation schedule or division of travel expenses to accommodate a move. For any of these issues, Tot Law’s San Diego military attorneys can give the member the best chance at achieving success in these custody matters as well as in all others for which we provide representation. We fight for military members because they fight for us, and because they deserve the very best advocacy when considering their rights as parents.

Servicemembers Civil Relief Act

When on deployment, servicemembers have special rights which mandate at least one 3-month continuance to allow for the member to return home or to arrange for appropriate representation. However, rights such as these are not automatic, and must be affirmatively exercised by the member. If you are a servicemember who has received notice of legal proceedings in San Diego County while you are stationed elsewhere, please call the Tot Law, APC offices at 619.794.2018 immediately in order to protect yourself and ensure that you have the representation you need to protect your children, finances, and everything else at risk during these types of proceedings!

Testimonials

I'm in the military and had a very unique case. Paul was not only compassionate and understanding but walked me through the process and answered all my questions throughly. My military schedule was very difficult at times and Paul worked around it and went completely out of his way to make me feel...

Chris H.

I found Paul in my time of need. I had one month till my court date. He worked with me to get everything I needed filed on time and in order. He was very respectful and generous with his time to fit with my crazy schedule. Once my court date arrived he was able to help me fight for what was right. I...

Rebecca P.

Trustworthy, Responsive, Customer-Oriented, and Good Written Work! Paul was very attentive, understanding and sympathetic. Unlike other lawyers, he was not aggressive, not pushing me to hire him. Instead he provided me an honest overview. With his help, I was able to fully accomplish my goals.

Susan B.

You were OUTSTANDING in all respects in representing me. You were stellar. Thanks so much for all you did for me. I hope you have a great holiday season with your little ones - I know I certainly will - and will remember that YOU helped make it possible.

Teresa D.

Great Lawyer! Paul didn't nickel and dime me like the disaster of my previous lawyer did. Paul was very pleasant and remained very professional unlike my previous lawyer. I will use Paul in the future if needed and would recommend Paul.

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